Dating Online Singles http://www.datingonlinesingles.net Tue, 26 Jun 2012 07:56:59 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4 Online Singles Over 50 /2012/06/online-singles-over-50/ /2012/06/online-singles-over-50/#comments Tue, 26 Jun 2012 07:56:59 +0000 webmaster /?p=81 One benefit to meeting new people over the internet is the ability to focus in on specific categories. While many people have a wide range of preferences when it comes to partners and such, others like to favor more particular flavors.  For some what they want is online singles over 50 years of age.

Dating sites require people to be over age 18, but there are special sites that have higher age limits.  Some of these set the limit at age 50 minimum.  This makes it easy for people who want to find others that are also over the age.  

While it is possible for a 20 year old to have a relationship or friendship with a 60 year old or whatever, some people only feel comfortable with people in or closer to their generation.  Some people have more of a preference for people of certain racial makeups and such also.  The internet of course caters to this.

Nobody is forced to use those type of sites.  So if they find them too limiting or even possibly view them as discriminatory, then they can use the broader general dating sites.  We aren’t here to decide which type of site is best for each person.  That is up to them based on their needs and views about how the process should go.

If someone is over 50 and is also only seeking those that are over 50, a great option can be the sites that focus on that.  These sites are going to be specifically geared towards those people, so the page layout and general tone of the site may reflect this, which can in turn make people feel more comfortable.

We would suggest for these people to not necessarily limit themselves to just using these specific platforms.  They can also use the major sites that focus on a wider group of people.  In your profile on those sites you can state your age and also any age preferences.  So there are always various options to check out and be aware of.

A WORD OF CAUTION

Age 50 is the new age 40 and all that, so we want to be polite and not refer to anyone as “old” or anything like that.  But, it is important to note that there are stories of scam artists who target those on dating sites of upper ages.  They are viewed as more vulnerable, so just be careful.  Use common sense.

GO FOR IT

With that said, some of the higher age groups are often those that are too afraid or are those that find the world of online singles and related things to be just too strange to them.  We encourage them to feel no awkwardness and to just go ahead and try it. Again, be careful of who you  interact with and how you interact with them and make an effort to join reputable sites.

Whether it is dating sites for over fifty or other niches, or just for the romance related sites in general – there is something for everyone.

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8 Online Dating Tips /2012/04/8-online-dating-tips/ /2012/04/8-online-dating-tips/#comments Sun, 29 Apr 2012 10:55:37 +0000 webmaster /?p=74 In today’s busy world although reaching any place around the globe and keeping in touch with family and friends has become easier and hassle free, the flip side is that people have become busier and lonelier than ever.

In part because it is easy to move around, many people take up jobs that gives them the most potential satisfaction, but that means it is not always that they find those promising opportunities near their home or where their family lives. So living alone and not knowing people in the area has become more of a norm than in the past.

Although, that gives chances and opportunities to singles to meet up with other single people in an environment away from their families, it can still be hard to figure out how to find others.  This has helped to cause online dating to become more popular in recent years.  It has gained worldwide acceptance among people belonging to all types of groups from all types of communities.

 

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It is no longer weird to get help with finding that special someone.  A problem though, is that many have no idea how to approach it.  Therefore we are going to provide some online dating tips in this article.

An advantage of online dating is that you can connect to people across the globe and chat from the leisure of your home; you do not have to worry about which dress to put on, which time is convenient as cyber space is open 24 hrs.and 365 days a year and gives a platform to connect to likeminded people and get to know them before meeting up.

It takes out the tension of how someone would perceive about the looks and takes away the hesitation of initiating the talk as you can converse as anonymous and if do not find it interesting, you can walk away without hurting people. However, it is advisable to be always polite and courteous as you never know, you may actually meet that very person in real life and human beings are emotional, so why hurt anyone?

Although, online sites have many profiles listed and a range of options are available to define the criteria for choosing, but that comes with its flip side as even after setting those criteria, the range of profiles available to choose from is a lot.

1. Honesty is the best policy – Create a profile of yours and write honestly about yourself, what you want and what you are – your profession, your interests etc. Do this because people judge about their potential partners based on the profile that you created and also it would be easy for you because then you do not have to memorize what you said or wrote and would not get in tacky situation and lose credibility.

2. Select profiles and express interest – If you are seriously looking for a date or wanting to settle down then you can select the criteria and see which profiles come up- express the interest if you like the profile. Do not wait as the other person might not have visited your profile even though it may interest them because of the criteria set by them like you may be 5 9’ and they set the criteria till 5 7’.

3. Share photographs – Make sure to post at least some photos of yourself on the site because no matter what people say or write about looks – “looks are not important”; you would find that most of them would prefer to see the photographs before starting conversation or soon after initial conversation. Looks do not matter tends to be more valid in circumstances in real life situations where people get to know about the real personality of a person and get inclined towards that person because of their personality but on online, everyone is as good as their profile says they are, because no one knows about the other person’s real personality and looks might become one of the decisive factors to proceed further or not, especially because of the range of profiles available to choose from.

4. Do not share personal information at initial stages and verify information before meeting – It is important not to share your all personal information like your home or work place address or jump to meet the very next day with the person with whom you initiate chats. Also, it is advisable to check the background of the profiles before meeting as a precautionary measure, so “Trust but verify” and initially meet at safe places like crowded public place along with friends or family members. Report if the member is abusive in language or behavior. Many online dating site operators place fake profiles, also known as “ghost profiles” of their own members or people they have paid to attract new punters or keep the existing ones hooked on. So, if after two three chats, you find that the member seems interested but does not want to reveal the information about their job, education, family and does not share the phone number or snaps the conversation on some or other pretext when you try to find it out, you can walk away than waste your time.

5. Avoid asking very personal questions in initial conversations – Be careful not to ask very personal questions in the first few messagess to any one and especially if you have chosen to converse with numerous profiles. Also do not delay afterwards if both of you want to take it further as you do not want to be wasting time with people who are not transparent and open to talk about it even at later stages of dating.

6. Treat people with respect – It is important that you treat everyone you meet online with respect and if you want to move away from conversation, make sure you tell the other person and not just vanish. Keep the conversation polite and simple and do not point fingers at others – if the other person is impolite, you can possibly avoid them by making a polite excuse.

7. Don’t be nagging personality – Another mistake which most people do is constant nagging, if you have started talking to someone, then it does not mean that whenever they are online that you have to initiate chats.  Remember, they may be interested in other profiles too and may not always want to converse until and unless they are seriously interested. Besides, don’t press people for answers they don’t want to give because people have right to reveal only as much as they want.

8. Don’t be a whiner – You may have went through a breakup or had other bad experiences, but these sites are not the best medium to come across as a complainer.  One may blame their ex or whoever for their miseries and things, but no need to put that on a dating site profile.  You can share that information later on if you get to know someone better after meeting them.

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How to Get Dates Online /2012/02/how-to-get-dates-online/ /2012/02/how-to-get-dates-online/#comments Tue, 07 Feb 2012 06:47:40 +0000 webmaster /?p=66 Online dating is a growing trend in the modern period. There are a number of singles websites which offer a variety of online dating services. Despite this, many are still confused about how to get dates online. In this article we will give some tips to better help you out.

For most people, photos will play a very important role when you are searching for your potential partner online. One thing to consider in particular is pictures of faces. Your face can be seen as reflecting your personality. Most everyone wants a trustworthy partner. Your photo should be designed to catch the eyes of many people and to also gain their trust.

Online websites provide a flexible solution to find someone to go out with or even for discovering your life partner. You can see thousands of profiles online. Check the profiles that are suitable according to your requirement. Don’t restrict yourself to a single profile. Always be willing to look at multiple profiles for better results of course.

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Make your profile interesting and unique. You only get to make one profile so always write good information that should have an impressive effect over others. Think about it, because it has the potential to have positive as well as negative effects. If your profile is not interesting then possibly ask a friend or relative for special tips that can make it more desirable and admirable. Always show how much you are special. Incomplete or wrong information can attract wrong people. This is the matter of your life. We think it should be necessary to find your partner with complete and accurate information.

If you are interested in any profile, don’t be afraid to tell the other person. Attempt to make a conversation with the dude or gal on the other end. You want to get the complete information that is necessary to know about. If you are comfortable and all the information is up to your requirement then you can even exchange the personal numbers or email id. These dating websites make it easier to be able to get the man or woman of your choice. You can set up meetings with many persons. It can become an awesome way to get to know about each other.

If you never get dates online then maybe you are looking for wrong people. Give realistic information about yourself and your desired partner. Don’t give high profile information that is difficult to find out. In some cases, girls are shy and don’t like to meet the people personally. For guys, don’t write in your profile that you require a girl only for one night stand. This information certainly shows that you are only interested in nice girls.

The last step is to find a reliable website. Some websites offer special services with a date guarantee or some such thing to that effect. These type of sites may be more expensive to join however, or to gain access to the full features of their program.  In case of any doubts, make proper research to check the authenticity of website.

All in all, the way to get dates in our cyber age is to put the effort in.  Like all things, you need to try. Some may have to try more than others, but everyone does have to do it if they want results. Don’t get discouraged.  Keep the faith, have hope, be confident and what you desire will likely be right around the corner.

 

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Online Dating for Educated Singles /2011/07/online-dating-for-educated-singles/ /2011/07/online-dating-for-educated-singles/#comments Thu, 21 Jul 2011 09:13:09 +0000 webmaster /?p=58 (Note : This is a post about online dating for educated singles by a guest writer to the site.  We do not agree with all of his conclusions, but he is our friend and he wanted to share some interesting thoughts.)

If you are single, maybe you thought about looking for someone suited for you over the Internet. The only problem these days is the fact that the Internet holds many online dating websites where there are all sorts of people that in 90% of the cases have nothing in common with you.

After all, if you are a highly educated person, with a Ph.D. for example,  you might have a hard time finding someone you could greatly get along with over the Internet. This usually happens because just about everyone has access to the Internet and most people who spend time over the Internet are either younger people or people who have normal jobs, no higher education and lots of time on their hands.

In many cases, the reason why you can’t find anyone for your liking is not the fact that they are not educated enough, but the actual difference in concepts and ideas which can be unbearable. It is better for educated singles to date people who share their own feelings, thoughts and level of education.

Luckily, there are websites over the Internet where you can find several website suggestions. These suggestions are usually websites where people just like you are looking for someone to date. If you are looking for someone at Masters or Doctorate level, then there are plenty of websites for people who are looking for the same thing. You could easily register by completing an online form. That form usually asks for a nickname, your real name and various information about what you are like, what your hobbies are, level of studies and so on.

You will also have to describe both yourself and the person you are looking forward to meet. An email address is also required usually, or else you will probably not be able to register. You need to make sure that the description you provide for people who will visit your profile is thorough enough, so that they will not expect to meet someone different. For making things even clearer, describing your height, body type and other important physical features can be a plus.

Visit several websites destined for single educated people in order to try and date someone at your education level. It is a known fact that people who share the same amount of knowledge in a certain domain and love for various arts always get along better than someone who has a Ph.D. with someone who dropped out of high school. It is just normal, so stop looking for love and understanding in places where you can’t get it and try to date some people you meet on online dating websites for educated people.

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Online Dating Profile Examples for Men /2011/07/online-dating-profile-examples-for-men/ /2011/07/online-dating-profile-examples-for-men/#comments Fri, 15 Jul 2011 06:26:25 +0000 webmaster /?p=52 How do you find good online dating profile examples for men?  Once you think about it, the answer is obvious.

The way to find them is to simply browse through the profiles of others. What types of things do you look for in a profile? Would you respond to someone that did not have a picture or at least a small list of basic interests?

Of course, different people have different desires. Not everyone looks for the same things in a profile. It is important to think about the type of person that you wish to attract. What would they look for in a profile?

If you like to travel, don’t you think that is a good example of something that a potential date would like to know up front about you? Give them a basic idea of who you are. Being mysterious may attract some people, but that percentage is very small, especially when it comes to online dating.

Again, the main way to see nice samples of online dating profile examples for men or women – is to join a dating site and spend a good amount of time browsing the profiles on there.  Notice what catches your eye and take notes.

Another tip to know is this – just because you see a common trend, does not mean it applies to the type of person you are trying to attract.  For example, you might see a lot of photos of guys with no shirts on. In the world of dating online singles, this may attract a certain number of people, but it is going to also turn off a bunch of others.

Try to imagine the mindset of who you are looking to meet.  Would they think that it is tacky to show shirtless photos to strangers or would they be impressed?

One more tip is to not be afraid to be original and come up with some ideas and a style of your own. With so many of the dating profiles for men and women having so much in common and being so similar, you can get yourself noticed by being original.

There is a ton of variety when it comes to the styles of internet dating profiles. By looking at good examples of others, and by also using some ideas of your own, you can come up with an awesome profile that surely represents who you are and will attract the type of people that you are after.

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Can I Really Fall in Love Online? /2011/05/can-i-really-fall-in-love-online/ /2011/05/can-i-really-fall-in-love-online/#comments Mon, 30 May 2011 09:09:41 +0000 webmaster /?p=41 CAN I REALLY FALL IN LOVE ONLINE?

This is a question that at least a few people have wondered about. People meet over the internet at online dating sites. Many of them get to know each other better over the computer screen.

This can lead to people developing feelings for each other, or at least what they perceive as so. The problem is, according to most experts, deep levels of feelings are basically impossible when you have not met in person.

You may think you have really fallen in love, but when it is just from an online perspective you may be idealizing the other person behind the screen. Quirks and such that may turn you off would become more apparent in person.

Nobody is perfect, but from behind a computer screen it can be easier to come across that way.  We found an excellent video about this and have embedded it below.

 

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How to Put Your Arm Around a Girl at the Movies /2011/05/how-to-put-your-arm-around-a-girl-at-the-movies/ /2011/05/how-to-put-your-arm-around-a-girl-at-the-movies/#comments Thu, 19 May 2011 15:58:33 +0000 webmaster /?p=38 Many guys still seem to wonder how to put your arm around a girl at the movies.  First off, you don’t have to do this at the movies or anywhere else.  It has to come natural at the right time and place.

We’ve embedded a video clip with some good advice on this below.  The right way for a guy to put his arm around someone depends on the situation and mood.  There is no standard way.

Look at the video below for some tips.

 

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Singles Online Dating /2011/05/singles-online-dating/ /2011/05/singles-online-dating/#comments Thu, 12 May 2011 10:17:21 +0000 webmaster /?p=35 Singles online dating services are now an accepted part of our society. Years ago, the thought of someone in Texas, Vermont or wherever else looking for love online was considered a weird idea to most people. Now though, technology is a major part of most people’s lives.

There is no reason to feel weird about looking for a date online. We figured we should highlight some of the reasons why.

PEOPLE ARE BUSY

The world today is a busy place for many. More hours are spent working. Commute times are longer. Whether right or wrong, many people feel they need to be involved and accomplish more than ever before.

THE BAR SCENE IS STILL THE BAR SCENE

It is what it is and it is not for everyone. Meeting someone at the bar may not be the best place to start a longer term relationship. Many people that never go to bars do use computers.

DIVORCE IS MORE COMMON

Due to it being less taboo now and because of other reasons, divorce is more common than ever. Not that divorce is a good thing, but it does create more people once again entering the singles market.

IT IS A QUICK WAY TO “MEET” NEW PEOPLE

Singles online dating sites allow a person to find out about a wide variety of people in a fast time frame. Meeting people in public can end up leading to people spending more time with someone that they are not compatible with than they would like. Most people would feel rude not to politely talk at least awhile to someone new in a public setting, whereas on the internet you can quickly scan profiles and find people with common interests or whatever else one is looking for.

MOST PEOPLE KNOW SOMEONE THAT HAS USED A SINGLES ONLINE DATING SITE

Whether or not they are aware, the average human in many countries now personally knows someone that has signed up to look for love online. It is one of the most common activities that people take part in on the internet nowadays.

IT IS THE COOL THING TO DO

No longer is it the territory of “losers”, not that it ever was, and not that anyone is really a loser, but most of you will understand our point. The hip and cool thing now for young people and others is to use internet personal sites. There have even been hit music videos and songs that have featured computer dating! Computers are for everyone now, not just geeks.

So to sum up, don’t be afraid to sign up for a site. There are literally thousands and thousands of males and females right now that have done so. You may be just what many of them are looking for!


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Online Dating Conversation Starters /2011/04/online-dating-conversation-starters/ /2011/04/online-dating-conversation-starters/#comments Fri, 08 Apr 2011 06:16:32 +0000 webmaster /?p=30 Many people do not know what to do and what not to do for online dating conversation starters. The main key is to be yourself, but to make sure to be intriguing and to try to put a smile on the face of the other person.  Do not make things more complicated than they really are.  Online dating chat is basically the same as in real life.

 
Remember your first dating experience and how it was difficult to get to say the first meaningful statement? The goose pimples rose and you fumbled with words, not knowing whether to start with weather issues or latest gossip in town.

 

You can never be too sure of what to say on your first date because it is likely that you don’t really know what topics the other person prefers or dislikes. This should be an encouragement if you are planning your first online dating because you are not alone!

 
The physical space that limited dating to certain limited restrictions is no longer a problem. Online dating services now enable one to go on dating with a friend many miles away. If you thought that this will replace the goose pimple fear of not knowing how to pose the first sentence, then you are wrong. The internet has only replaced the physical presence but the human communication challenges still remain. This is why online dating conversation starters are still on huge demand even among people who are having this medium of communication.

 
The conversion starters for both physical and online dating must follow certain etiquettes that are expected in any communication with a stranger. In this article, we shall share some do and do not for online dating conversation starters.

 
Do :

  • Be honest. Your honesty can be seen even while dating online. There is always something about lying because your next sentence will sell you put. Therefore stick to one and be honest.
  • Be simple. Please and please again, never try to get the best of your thesaurus English with the hope of impressing. You will definitely fail and worst off you may leave an impression of being boastful.
  • Be casual. Your date does not need to feel like they are being interrogated. This is not  a job interview that you attending nor is it congregational question and answer session. Make him or her lead you in the conversation and feel free to break. The best online dating conversation starters are those that respond to a situation that has just arisen in the dating space, for example, a hitch in internet connection would be a good starter.

 

Do not :

  • Do not be too formal as this scares off your date. Most people don’t like things to formal with someone that you don’t know too well.
  • Do not use predictable openers.
  • Make up silly and ridiculous stories about yourself.

 

Good online dating conversation starters are about being interesting, fun, and realistic at the same time.

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Dating Online Singles /2011/02/dating-online-singles/ /2011/02/dating-online-singles/#comments Wed, 02 Feb 2011 05:44:23 +0000 webmaster /?p=26 Benefits of Dating Online Singles

The internet is a great medium that brings singles together for dating, and for some eventually marriage. There are a number of websites offering the facility of online dating. The process has its own benefits. Online dating website gives a flexible option to meet the new persons. You can interact with new people and know about them. There are thousands of people like you who are interested in a lovable life partner. You just need to check the profile and interact with the interested person. In the growing trend, online dating websites have become the style for young generation. Don’t miss the great chance. This is really a great experience that you can enjoy with online dating websites.

Add an attractive personal profile. This is not an essential requirement to add the complete information. But it surely attracts more visitors. Your personal information is safe over dating websites. You can reveal the information according to your choice. Never give your personal information on chat. There are always some scam personalities that can misuse the information. There are a number of dating websites over internet. Different websites offer different services to their dating online singles customers. Most of the websites provide the match making services. In the modern era, thousands of people get their life partner through dating websites.

This is also a flexible and easy option for your parents. They don’t have to take as much effort as it was in the past. This is quite interesting option for everyone. The most important point to focus is finding the right website. Only the right service can give right results. Photo plays a very important role in dating websites. A great photo can attract a hundred of profiles. But it is not good to consider the photo alone. Sometimes, people use scam photos to misguide you. People also use old photos that are quite different from their present appearances.

If you like the profile of a person, you can chat with him or her. You can get more information about the person. If you are comfortable then also fix to set up a meeting. Meeting is a great way to know about each other. It can sometimes be better to make a face to face interaction instead of just spending your time on phone chat. Now the issue is to find the right service for online dating. Read the reviews about the website prior to registration. Checking reviews is a great way to find the best service online. Also make the comparison between different services and enroll yourself for the best opportunity.

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